Today is a special day for me because of two things.
First, my wife went her home alone for the first time,after our marriage. You may ask what is the specialiaty in that..well..we married five years back, and this is the first time she is travelling without me and that too a distance of around 30 kilometers. Considering her character, this is really a courageous move she made, though 30 kilometers may not be a great distance today. Eventhough the occation that forced her to travel alone is sad -that her mother is seriouslly ill- now I understand that she is a person having good courage. Yet another surprice was my 2 year old kid. For him also this is the first time, his mother is not in his vicinity, for such a long period- almost a full day with his grand-mother. I thought he will make so much noise and trouble, when she leaves. But -I don't know whether he understood the situation or what - he was very quite and calm, inspite of occational query 'amma evide?'( where is mother?), and then will wander around with her elder sister who is adaptable to any situation. This changed my perception on my wife and kid, now they are not the persons I used to see till yesterday, but totally different persons.
The second thing is , I happened to had a good training on personality development. I am an introverted person and every minutes I try to come out of that. But I could never success. Now I am confident that I will achieve it. And even this writing is an outcome of that. Thanks to Silpa Sankar, our trainer. Her dynamic and inspirational words were so much encouraging. Now I understands what are my positives qualities and also my negatives that I should get rid of. Now I know the areas which I should improve.I know that it is difficult to change the character, overnight.Better late than never..This is a begining..